If like me you are passionate about Equality and Diversity, it is likely that you will have heard the name Verna Myers. Verna is a world-renown inclusion strategist, influencer, and catalyst for cultural change.
She is also a legend. When asked to explain the difference between Equality, Diversity, and Inclusion, she said....
"Diversity is being invited to the party. Inclusion is being asked to dance".
I think that is a great analogy. But what does that look like in the real world? The dictionary definition of Inclusion simply put is - "the action or state of including or of being included within a group or structure". In many parts of our society people are simply not included. Some people are constantly subjected to various forms of inequality or discrimination. Some people become marginalized or victimized due to their physicality, race, gender, sexual orientation, or simply their Socioeconomic status. This Inequality permeates our world, affecting everything from day to day living through to our businesses, commerce, and government. We seem to be living in a "Me First" Society where community and common good has given way to "what's in it for me?
Many of us find this a sad state of affairs. However, there is an old zen Buddhist saying that I am fond of quoting, which goes,
"The world is not the way, I think it should be".
We can lament that the world is not the way we think it should be or we strive to make a change. We live in a world filled with a wonderful diversity. Diversity is reality but inclusion is a choice.
So, how can we do our part to help make that change?
Well, a few thoughts from me, if you want to become a more thoughtful—and inclusive—a force for good in the world.
Spend some time in reflection. Think about how you view the world.
Take an honest look at how you feel about people who are different from you.
Be aware of becoming too judgemental. Slow down and ask the question, what if I was this person.
Explore your unconscious bias, it may surprise you. Do not be afraid to ask questions. They used to say that travel broadens the mind. These days we jet off all around the world but often we are like a tortoise and carry our cultural baggage around like a shell. Educate yourself and take yourself out of your comfort zone. It might be initially uncomfortable when you are interacting with people who seem different from the person who you are. Knowledge and familiarity will enable you to respect and embrace the wonderful differences of your fellow humans.
A finally, practice gratitude. Particularly when you get grumpy and feel that the world is not the way you think it should be.
Take care.